NOTE:
Breast Cancer takes 7-12 years to grow to a size that it can be diagnosed, yet the day after diagnosis you have an oncology team ready to cut and poison the same week.
You have time to think, collect your thoughts and decide what is right for you. This is not unlike the sudden change in prostate protocol, which has decided not all prostate issues that are diagnosed need surgery or chemotherapy and that there is no rush to treat agressively.
...The only difference is the tolerance of men vs. women.